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I experienced the term “maybe not a unicorn” throughout my Tinder visibility for some time. It was not to point distaste for your mythical existence because, hey, We adjust your locks design enough to maintain solidarity employing rainbow aesthetic. Alternatively it actually was to remove upon messages from partners who had been “unicorn-hunting.”

For that inexperienced, the expression unicorn-hunting usually represent the technique of an acknowledged couples looking a third lover to engage in either threesomes or triads (commitments between three men and women). Commonly, though never, the couple comprises of a directly cisgender person and a queer (usually bisexual, pansexual, or omnisexual—bi+ for short) or bicurious cisgender wife, and they’re seeking a bi+ cisgender female whos just as attracted to both of them and curious about whatever setup they had at heart. Continue reading →